Memorable quotes Natalya: How can you act like this, how can you be so cold? Bond: That's what keeps me alive. Natalya: No. That's what keeps you alone. Natalya: Do you destroy every vehicle you get into? Bond: Standard operating procedure. Boys with toys. Natalya: What is it with you and moving vehicles? Natalya: I'm not going on a helicopter with you. No plane. No train. Nothing that moves. 精彩对白 娜塔丽娅:你怎么可以这样做?你怎么能如此冷酷? 邦德:这能让我活下去。 娜塔丽娅:不,那样只会使你孤独。 娜塔丽娅:难道你要毁掉每一辆坐过的车吗? 邦德:这可是标准的操作程序。跟男孩们对待玩具一样。 娜塔丽娅:这与你和那车子又有何干系? 娜塔丽娅:我不要跟你同乘直升机,不跟你同乘飞机,不跟你同乘火车。只要是会动的东西我都不会与你同坐。 Why men like James Bond Bond is a much different fictional hero than others. Yes, he is a man of action as all heroes are. The difference is that even though he is a civil servant, he lives a life of leisure and luxury. It's not the action and danger that men crave1, it's the fancy hotels, cars, and travel that make them want to live the James Bond Lifestyle. The problem is that men go to the theater and they cheer for Bond up there on the screen. They yell, “Go Bond. Don't give up. Don't mind the danger. Don't worry about the pain and the blood.” However, when they leave the theater they fail to cheer for themselves. They think, “I'd like to start my own business. But it's too risky”, “I'd like to find a new apartment or buy a new house. But it'll be too much trouble.” It's time to get your “but” out of the way. It's time to “act while other men just talk.” Want to focus under pressure, instead of fold? 007 will show you the way When James Bond is under pressure he doesn't fold. He focuses. He can call up his talent at will when dismantling2 a ticking bomb or when talking with an interesting woman. Want to do this too? There's only one way. Start taking gentle rulership over your personality (body, mind, feelings). But your personality will fight the real you with “pulls” distracting you from your goals, and with “blocks” which stop you with fear. Your body is perfect. But the personality is not. The body gets tired, the mind forgetful, and the emotions sad, impatient, and angry. It is your job to raise up these three energies of the personality to maturity—just as you raise up children. Finally you will be able to express the perfection that is you, using the tools of the personality. This will not make you an “unfeeling robot.” It will actually free up your energies so that you can feel what you want to feel, when you want to feel it. This is the most important aspect of living a James Bond lifestyle. Take control and express the cool perfection that is you. Bond attire for all occasions Good dark pants, long sleeve dress shirt, and a solid color sports jacket that can look like a suit jacket. Don't button the jacket and be sure to have a good-looking belt. If your jacket has an inside pocket with a button, it's a good place to put your glasses, where they won't fall out. If you're going to a casual place, carry the jacket. Carrying the jacket looks cool, even if you have no intention of wearing it. You can drape3 it over your arm, or carry it over your shoulder. If you want to be very casual, fold (don't roll) your sleeves up two turns. For a dressier look, fold your sleeves down and button them. If you want to be very dressy, wear the jacket, don't put your shirt collar over your lapels4. You should carry a tie in your jacket pocket in case you end up at a place that requires one. A quick trip to the restroom to put it on and you're ready for a first class affair. Be sure to wear black leather shoes with this and you'll be looking Bond no matter the time, place, or occasion. Ultimate love potion No, it's not Bond's shaken not stirred Martini that stirs the heart. It's someone special who helps us be the best we can be, someone who shows us a dream for ourselves that we didn't think was possible, someone who helps us attain our dream. That's what makes the heart fall in love. Helping someone with her dreams has more power than two dozens red roses. Giving someone a book that will lead her to her goals has more power than a box of chocolate. Paying for a seminar5 that will teach your loved one how to move up in life, will do more than a weekend in Las Vegas. However, don't make the mistake of taking on the role of teacher. Don't preach to your loved one like a know-it-all. Quietly give your loved one a book, a compliment, a word of guidance, a gold sovereign for luck. And then let them use that energy to find their way on their own, as you led by example, going after your own dreams. Then if the chemistry is right, love will be on the horizon.